Every New Year

This year, I’m going to be better, smarter, faster, stronger, younger, thinner, and work twice as hard, play twice as much, design more popular things, and, and, and, and…

Yeah… I know, my enthusiasm for new beginnings is EXHAUSTING!

But, being real, my genuine intentions are to:

  • Run 208 times this year (average 4 runs / week), and add another friend (or three) into my run schedule. To manage this, I’ll schedule to run 5 times / week regularly, so when things go wrong my average will work out over the long run.
    • 2021: 192 runs / 602 mi
    • 2020: 197 runs / 410 mi
    • 2019: 194 runs / 376 mi
    • 2018: 116 runs / 190 mi
    • 2017: 86 runs / 195 mi
  • Be (at least a little) more honestly myself with loved ones
    • Less performing, less showing off; risk being my ordinary-ass self
    • Practicing having conflict with people I care about… begin to practice how to disagree and have conversations when positions differ, in ways that are respectful and loving
    • Tackle changing these kinds of habits and behaviours one little step at a time
  • Stay sober. This one I began again in August 2021, but I’m going to roll it in as a stated goal for 2022 because it’s great. My life is better, I enjoy myself more without alcohol, I wonder if I’ll feel the same at the end of 2022. Related to sober, I wanna watch myself for other numbing / avoidance behaviours, and build habits that keep me living inside my life rather than avoiding it.

I have a lot of projects, work goals and personal to-dos that I want to tick off this year too… but the above three items are on the top of my list for personal development.

Often New Years resolutions get a bad reputation. But I desperately love new beginnings, because they’re so filled with excitement and possibility. So I always go in big for the start-of-year planning process.